Thursday, January 12, 2012

Courage

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(Photos by Tiffani)

I'll never forget the time in 7th grade when I was on the bus with my friends.
There was a girl a year younger behind us,
and I knew her parents had just gone through a divorce and things were tough.
My friends started laughing about her pants;
they were too short for her.
The girls making fun of her weren't quiet about what they thought.
I looked back at her seat just in time to see her hang her head,
and uncomfortably try and pull her pants down so they wouldn't
look like they were too high off the ground.
I felt so bad for her,
I was so mad at my friends.
But I didn't say anything.
I didn't join in on what they were saying,
and worse,
I didn't stick up for her either.

12 years later I am still ashamed of myself for not
having the courage to tell my friends to be quiet,
and go put my arm around a girl who just needed someone by her side.

After that day, I promised myself that I would never again remain silent
about something that I believed in.
I promised myself that no matter how uncomfortable the situation was,
that I would make myself have the courage to speak up or do things
that everyone else was to coward to do.
I haven't let myself down since.

Has it been completely embarrassing sometimes?
You bet.
Did it terrify me in the years when I was incredibly shy?
Without a doubt.

But now it has become a part of who I am.
And I'm not ashamed of that.
The courage to stand up against the fighting forces of the world and say,
"Hey, that's not right, and I won't take it"
is a sweet virtue that is fading away.

It takes courage to live every, single day.
Sometimes, courage comes in the moments when we just want
to give up because life is so hard, but we keep going anyways.
And not only do we keep going, but we do it with the outlook
that we will overcome.

Have courage. Stand a little taller. And see what happens when you choose to be braver.
Link up your post on courage below.

28 comments:

★ JASMINE ★ said...

You are so gorgeous! Wow, and you write beautifully!

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Mary Kate said...

Great Great Great Post!

Breanna said...

This is an awesome post :) Your outfit is darling as well! Like my mom used to say Courage is grace under pressure!

Hanna said...

One of my favorite quotes, EVER. You look gorgeous Ash. ,loving that cardigan!

Erin said...

You are just so beautiful and I love your passion for standing up for what is right! :)

**rk** said...

awesome post!

ThisLittleMomma said...

My first memorable courage moment reminds me a lot of this story. Can't wait to share and link it.

MacKensie said...

This just made me tear up a little bit. You are amazing, and I love this post.

xo

MacKensie

Miss ALK said...

Awesome post Ashley! Very encouraging :-)

xoxo Miss ALK

Heather said...

I think many of us have been in that situation before, either being made fun of.... or the one doing the "poking". I wish more people would stand up for what is right... I regret many things I did as a child, but the best part? each day is a new start... a fresh beginning to apologize and make things right!

Courtney*Cakes said...

Your beautiful.... Your words are beautiful and inspirational... So glad that I have found your blog (plus your also an AZ girl!)

Also slightly obsessed with your cardigan. Where did you get it?

XOXO

bnfunky said...

Whoa. Thanks for sharing this. I have this EXACT same memory of a girl who got picked on in 5th grade. It STILL makes me shutter. Props to you for making a deal with yourself and sticking with it!

melody-mae said...

You my love are an amazing woman. I am thankful & blessed to 'know' you. Shine your light and let the whole world see!

Janelle said...

Great post! I have really enjoyed following your blog!

Shaylynn;) said...

I absolutely need to find your world today. What a wonderful & perfect post.

Courage fails us, but its epic when we stand up.

Middle school was awful, glad you learned something from it:)

Kristie Colón said...

thanks for this ashley. such a powerful and needed message. the truth just has a way of finding its way here. thank you for giving it words!

Heather Spurlock said...

Thank you for this post. It is so true!

Shannon said...

What a lovely post. I got the hugest knot in my stomach reading the story of the girls on the bus. You brought back so many memories and anxiety of those days in school. I think we've all been there in some way or another. Your post was very inspiring. It's so important for us all to remember to stand up for ourselves and for people who need our support. It does take a lot of courage, but at the end of the day, it's so vital for everyone's health, happiness and growth.

Your blog is so beautiful and inspiring. Thank you!

http://shannonhearts.blogspot.com

Magic Brush said...

Just found your blog this morning via the Anderson Crew. And how funny....I just did a blog post on "courage" yesterday. I linked up to you. Great confirmation that my word of the year is perfect for me! Blessings, Jennifer

Trisha @ clarionwren.com said...

If only we could teach courage to all of our children. Then, maybe there wouldn't be so many bullies.

Kassi at Truly Lovely said...

I remember those days in school when your heart was breaking for someone getting picked on, but at the time you were too scared to become the one getting picked on to stand up for them. Wish kids weren't so hurtful!!

Alyx said...

Kids can be super mean.
This was such a good post!

Kimberly Bonham said...

Another great post!
You rock!

Gina Toothe said...

Love the quote~love your post!!its superb!! i love the "it takes courage to live every single day". How true!!

dusanabotswana said...

Aww this is fantastic and just what I needed to hear today, thank you for writing this, sharing your story and taking a stand now certainly makes up for being too shy back in the day (which I can certainly relate too as well). Wish I would have found your blog before but glad I did now : )
http://dusanabotswana.com/

Ellie Coburn said...

you're so perfect it hurts. Loved this post!
xoxo
Ellie

krista said...

Just wanted to drop by and say that I absolutely love your blog! So encouraging & optimistic! I plan on adding you to my 'sites I love' section on my site if you don't mind.

xo
Krista

lrlsmpls said...

I SO had my post ready and didn't get it posted to be able to link up. Posting now anyhoo. :)
Thanks so much for your inspirations!

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